Nine Practical Tips To Teach Your Child About MoneyChildren can be taught early on and easily about handling money in their lives. Any one of these nine practical tips from author and divorced dad, Len Stauffenger, help you get the point across.
Harmonious Interfaces With Your ExWhen you're divorced, one of the biggest challenges when there are children involved is the ongoing interface you must have with your ex. Your children deserve this communication because they don't handle change real well, and this communication is part of the continuity they so want and so deserve to have.
Divorced? Self-Care Tips to Help You HealAfter divorce, if you are a parent, you're mainly involved in child care. I'm highly recommending self care as well. Divorcees deserve their TLC. It helps in the healing.
You Married Him Why?You've gone through a divorce and you now know that once is more than enough, right? But do you know how to foster a quality relationship, marry more intelligently the second time around and prevent another divorce? Read on.
Learning About Relationships To Prevent Your Second DivorceWhen we are young, we are inexperienced and just not savvy when it comes to building quality relationships. We base our decisions on reasons that are subtly buried inside ourselves, and we avoid looking at the clues that are right in front of us. You can unfold the skills that it takes to not make that mistake twice. Nobody wants two divorces.
What Standards Do You Both Oversee About Your Kids/-Homework?Frequently in a divorce, if you are the custodial parent, the children do their homework at your house under your supervision. Because we understand and respect about children coming first when you're divorced, just how are you handling setting consistent implementing of homework standards when they visit their other parent?
Reasonable Visitation AgreementsDivorce presents many opportunities for the unfoldment of your character and establishing a reasonable visitation agreement is one of those times. If you keep the welfare of the children tantamount, you will be successful.
Stiffle It For the Sake of Your ChildrenAre the demands of raising children getting to you? Are you a divorced parent who experiences anger? Do you snap at your own children because of your stress? Here are some tips to identify if you are reaching critical mass.
Will A Divorce Recovery Group Help You?Divorce brings such challenging tasks along with it. You have to surmount your fears and your self doubt. I know many divorcees who feel it was the cause of their ultimate good and finding their soul mate as it was for me. There are online recovery groups who can help you process through this challenge.
Help Your Child to Love Both His ParentsDivorce presents far more of a challenge to the children than to the divorcing parents. They are innocent victims of their parent's decisions and need your help to let them continue to love both their parents, because they did nothing wrong.
Should You Invite Your Ex to Holiday AffairsThere were times during the early days of my divorce, when I did not want to see my ex's face. Period. And yet, there were the children who were accustomed to seeing her at family parties. What is the best thing to do for the sake of the kids?
The Therapy of Journaling About Your DivorceDivorce emotions are hard enough one time, so you want to do everything you can not to repeat the same mistakes. Even if it looks like your ex is the one who made mistakes, it did take two to tango. If you journal about the divorce, you will discover your role and not make the same mistake twice.
Helping Your Kids Thru the Emotions Divorce Stirs UpThe trauma that seems intrinsic to many divorces come from using dirty tactics. You're so much better off to steer clear of them though. You're better off to know your rights and insist they be honored.
Kids Think They Are To Blame When a Parent DisappearsYou can be sensitive to the fact that when you decide to divorce, your child may also experience the same grief that you feel as a parent: that of grief. You are losing your dream of a married, loving commitment. They are losing the presence of a parent that they have grown accustomed to. You can help cushion their sense of loss.
Should You Share Plans With Your Kids When You're Divorced?Divorced Parents have an uphill and ongoing struggle to stay communicated for the sake of your children. You'll have to remove the emotion from it and 'just do it.'
Why Is There Infidelity In My Life?If you have been the victim of your spouse's infidelity, this article is for you. It will help you to understand why he/she did it a bit more clearly, and you may even see your role (or the lack of it) in these wise words from a Life Coach and Divorced Dad.
You Got a Divorce. How Did That Make Your Kids Feel?Your children are going to feel that your divorce is the end of the world for them. It's wonderful to do a lot of explaining with them and a lot of listening to them. It's also good to help them to unfold some coping skills.
Don't Use Dirty Divorce TricksIf you've suffered emotional trauma that has left you feeling vulnerable and vindictive - someone who might feel tempted to resort to dirty divorce tricks - you will need a strong skill set, a lot of knowledge, professional support, but mostly, you will need internal courage to face your ex down and get what you deserve by law.
Alienation Between Divorced ParentsIf you see, sense or positively know that after your divorce, your ex spouse is alienating your children from you, you must deal with this. And if speaking to your ex doesn't work, here are some more tips to keep your kids' priorities first on your list.
Single, Divorced Mom? Learn To Do Home Repairs Yourself!If you are a newly divorced, single mother with limited means, you've been called upon to unfold some talents that are lying dormant within you. Home repairs can be a lot of fun and a great source of feeling good about yourself.
If You've Been Treated Badly By Your Ex, What's Next?Divorce is a time when emotional upheaval seems to be the norm. If you've found yourself in the situation of being treated badly by your ex, you'll want to correct that so that you never experience it again. Read the words of wisdom of Len Stauffenger, Life Coach and Divorced Dad.
Creating Security For Your Children With Your Own SolidarityIt's been reputed that the sins of the fathers shall be carried forth even unto the seventh generation. This _can_ be halted, if you will do the work to clean up the childhood remnants in your life, in order not to pass them along to your kids. You always wanted to raise your children well.
When Your Ex Is Gay - How Do You Tell His Children?If you're getting a divorce because your spouse is gay, and there are children from that marriage, it's a ticklish situation because at some point, you'll have to tell those children their dad is gay. Here's a story about how one woman handled this with her sons.
Planning for Your Future Now that You're DivorcedDivorce might be one of the most challenging events of your life experience to date. Your emotions are in a blender. If you have children, you are financially, spiritually and physically responsible for your child, his welfare, his education, and his stability. You might consider doing some planning for the future to assure that. Here are some tips from Divorced Dad, Len Stauffenger, author of 'Getting Over It! Wisdom for Divorced Parents'
The Benefits Behind The Pains of DivorceEverybody's heard the 'lemons to lemonade' advice but when it comes to a painful divorce, just how do you see the good in it? Divorced Dad, Len Stauffenger, gives you tons of ideas here and not only will they salve your divorce hurts, they will radiate into all the other areas of your life as well.
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