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Titled: Where Do I Begin? Choosing Music for a Memorial Service
Where Do I Begin? Choosing Music for a Memorial Service
Article Summary: Never had to plan a memorial service before? Almost every family has to deal with it at sometime. This article offers the most commonly requested songs for memorials, funerals and "celebration of life" services.
Choosing music for a loved one's memorial service, visitation, and reception can be very difficult. The music you choose should be meaningful to the family. It is also a good idea to use your loved one's favorite type of music or a favorite song (as it is appropriate for the different venues). Below are suggestions of different types of music that can be used effectively, along with most commonly requested pieces in that genre.
For the memorial service, funeral or "celebration of life" service:
Choose favorite hymns or other pieces that will minister to the spirit and emotions of those attending. This can include favorite classical, instrumental or vocal pieces.
Here are songs that are most commonly requested for solos or for congregational singing:
The most commonly requested hymns for Christian services are: Amazing Grace, How Great Thou Art, The Lord's Prayer, In the Garden, Old Rugged Cross, and It is Well with My Soul.
The most commonly requested gospel songs for Christian services are: Just a Closer Walk with Thee, Precious Lord Take My Hand, In the Sweet By and By, When We All Get to Heaven, Beyond the Sunset, and I'll Fly Away.
The most commonly requested songs for Catholic services are: On Eagle's Wings, Shepherd Me O God (Psalm 23), Be Not Afraid, You are Mine, Ave Maria, The Lord's Prayer, and Amazing Grace.
The most commonly requested secular songs are: Wind Beneath My Wings, My Heart Will Go On (Theme from Titanic), Somewhere Over the Rainbow, Time to Say Goodbye, and I'll be Loving You Always.
The most commonly requested country western songs are: One More Day (Diamond Rio), Always (Dolly Parton), and Angel(Sarah McLachlan).
For the visitation use non-obtrusive classical and relaxing music so people can easily converse without having to speak loudly. This music can be interspersed with favorite hymns or other favorite songs. Instrumental music is most effective for the visitation, but if the family has special song they want sung, it can be incorporated into the visitation during a quiet time.
For the reception use light classical music, waltzes, songs from musicals, love songs and relaxing music. Using music that is familiar to people helps them feel relaxed. Again, the music should be quiet enough so they can talk.
Finding the right musician(s):
1. Ask for a demo tape or ask to hear them perform.
2. Pay attention to how their music makes you feel. A poor voice or someone lacking technical skill will often make you feel tense or uneasy. The music of an excellent musician will soothe you and bring you a sense of peace.
If you are unable to afford live music, consider harp or other acoustic music that has a relaxed tempo.
With this knowledge you are prepared to use the power of music for relaxation and peace to enhance the experience of everyone who takes part in any of your memorial service day activities.
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About the Author:
Karin Gunderson
Karin Gunderson is fondly known as "the singing harpist," in Phoenix, AZ where she has performed for over 1000 memorial services. Her calling in life is to help others walk through their grief and begin to heal their grief. Find her therapeutic recordings, free resources and community forums at: http://www.healyourgriefsite.com
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