The 4 Most Common Signs That Your Relationship Is In Trouble

Have you ever found yourself in one of those situations where you and your significant other were flaming mad at one another? You may feel that during each falling out that a break up is necessary. You might be married, or only dating, but you need to know that there are other ways around an argument or misunderstanding than to break up

Here are the 4 most common signs that your relationship is in trouble:

1. Lack of communication. If your partner used to be a talker but now it seems like the cat has her tongue, you should be on alert. All good relationships require honest and open communication. If someone has stopped talking it generally means either that they are just sick of trying and feel like they're never really heard anyway, or that their mind is occupied elsewhere (with someone else, for example). Either way it doesn't look good for your relationship.

2. No touch zone. I'm not just talking about sexually, (although if one partner changes in how often they want sex it's a bad sign), but other physical contact. If your lover used to gently touch your check when they walked by you and now they don't, you might have a problem. If your partner turns away from simple touches and affection it is definitely a sign that something is going on.

3. Your partner always seems distracted. You know, when someone seems to be looking through you rather than at you. If your partner doesn't seem engaged with you or in the moment it might be something to address. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you or your relationship, they might be really stressed at work for example, but if they continue with the behavior or deny that they are doing it, you may have a problem.

4. Your partner isn't interested in spending time with you one on one. It seems like you are only together in groups. That is a very bad sign for any relationship. If you and your partner can't enjoy quality time bonding with each other, you need to be prepared for the big breakup. That's the 4 most common signs that your relationship is in trouble.

Relationship break up signs are really very common and easy to spot, if you know what you're looking for. When you spot these signs, don't ignore them and don't confront your partner in a hostile way. Just tell them that you love them and value your relationship and that you want to try to work things out, then it's time for you to shut up and listen. Sometimes doing that is the best thing you can do. If you get along pretty well with each other, feel connected and really want to stay together, fix it. It is worth it. It is hard to find that special person. When you do find them you need to hang on tight through the good and the not so good. I wish you all the best.