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Benevolent Expectations Create Better Results

Article Summary: We frequently just people unjustly and recognize that their best might not live up to our expectations. If we inject benevolence into those expectations, the results will eventually result in a bettered relationship.

Does looking at another falling short in their life at whatever tasks they are performing grate on you? Did you ever stop to consider that, while they might not live up to your standards, that they are performing to their own highest concepts and that they might not see the nigher plane that you do?

Oftentimes, they need a guiding hand, thought or voice, especially when we feel that they've strayed to the point where they've actually disappointed or irritated us. We may feel that there is no hope for this relationship and be ready to cast it aside.

Norman Vincent Peale puts it this way in The Power Principle Today:

"I discovered early in my own personal experience that the simple practice of outgoing love toward people is magically effective. Whenever I detect that my thoughts are going stale, I deliberately search for some opportunity to express love by a thoughtful and kindly act, and if I do enough of this, a new vigor, even fervor, shows in my mental state.

A revitalized feeling of aliveness and sensitivity becomes evident. To me, this practice is of tremendous importance. This infusion of caring thoughts followed by caring action has the effect of washing out of mind the accumulation of old, tired, gloomy thoughts which constantly recur unless arrested by some stronger mental force."

Relationships are fragile yet so important to our joy in work and play. Far too often, I learn of one destroyed by an incident that happened months, even years ago. In order to be the best that you can be, I say to this to you with all due respect:

Don't hold on to energy that would be classified as downbeat, cynical, or hurtful. Move on with benevolence.

Look for ways to offer goodwill. The effect you desire might not be instantaneous; frankly, the receiver may be untrusting of your offer. However, even suspicion and doubt will raise your level of communication from where it was yesterday. Look for ways to connect with this person. You might be surprised to discover that each of you share a common core of values and experiences?

What value would a beverage or meal away from the hustle bustle bring? There is likely depth to this person that you're expectations has not yet allowed to manifest. Set your doubts aside and assume that you can find something good inside them. If you watch closely, you will be able to watch benevolence wash throughout your life and manifest in grand results. Enjoy your discoveries, express more love, and have a great week.

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Ann Golden Egle
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